In India, a country where arranged marriages are still traditional for an overwhelming majority, author Farahad Zama has found the perfect setting for his story. The criteria for picking a bride or groom can be extensive, so it's no wonder that families turn to Mr. Ali and his trusty assistant, Aruna for help.
The following factors are generally considered in Indian marriages to search for compatibility:
- Values and personal expectations: should match
- Age and height: girl should generally be younger and shorter
- Looks: should be acceptable to the other
- Religion: should be same, preferably same sect
- Mother tongue, caste: should be preferably same
- Diet (veg/non-veg/alcohol/smoking): may differ only if acceptable to the other
- Education: comparable educational levels or the boy should be more educated than the girl
- Profession: the profession should be acceptable to the other
- Financial: The boy's current and future financial situation should be acceptable to the girl.
- Astrological signs/attributes: should be compatible, if the two families believe in it.
What did you like about this book?
I loved the fact that in between the laughter, the author weaves in background information about Indian customs and castes. It makes for a much richer reading experience, especially for readers unfamiliar with the culture.
What did you dislike about this book?
There were a few sections that moved slowly, but it did nothing to take away from the overall story.
What could the author do to improve this book?
No improvements needed. I'd love to see a series based on these characters.
304pp
Published June 2009
Theme: We Belong Together by Dianne Reeves
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